Whatever else remained the same, the light had changed, and you cannot find the pearly dawn at noonday. The fact is unalterable, that a fellow-mortal with whose nature you are acquainted solely through the brief entrances and exits of a few imaginative weeks called courtship, may, when seen in the continuity of married companionship, be disclosed as something better or worse than what you have preconceived, but will certainly not appear altogether the same. George Eliot
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We are all familiar with the idea that our perceptions of other people are always colored by our own preconceived notions. We may think that the person we are seeing is exactly as we imagined them to be, but this is rarely the case. It is much more likely that much of what we have believed about them is untrue, and much of what we have believed is true may be wrong. The very qualities that made us love someone at one time, may be the very reasons that someone else finds them so difficult to live with.

Source: Middlemarch

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